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"Zeitoun claimed he and Wang had been married to each other in previous lives," Wang's lawsuit said, adding that the doctor told her he had mistreated her in that life and "searched for her in this lifetime to correct his past mistakes."

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• Mother Teresa's Anyway Poem

  People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centered;
  Forgive them anyway.

  If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
  Be kind anyway.

  If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
  Succeed anyway.

  If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
  Be honest and frank anyway.

  What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
  Build anyway.

  If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
  Be happy anyway.

  The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
  Do good anyway.

  Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
  Give the world the best you've got anyway.

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• "Distraction is the manifestation of the fear of doing something important." ~ Justin Hersh
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• "If it isn’t broken, you’re not trying hard enough." ~Unknown
• "Life is pretty simple: You do some stuff. Some works. You do more of what works. If it works big, others quickly copy it. Then you do something else. The trick is the doing something else." ~Leonardo da Vinci
• "It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things." ~Leonardo da Vinci
• "I always tell the kids, 'You know what’s great about going the extra mile? There’s very little traffic.'â€? ~ Jim Larranaga, George Mason University basketball coach
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• "Any coward can sit in his home and criticize a pilot for flying into a mountain in a fog. But I would rather, by far, die on a mountainside than in bed." ~ Charles A. Lindbergh, aviator
• "Things do not happen. Things are made to happen." ~ JFK
• “Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past.â€? ~Dr. Jerry Jampolsky
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• "Do one thing every day that scares you.â€?—Eleanor Roosevelt
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• “The most successful people are those who are good at plan B.â€?—James Yorke, mathematician, on chaos theory in The New Scientist
• “People want to be part of something larger than themselves. They want to be part of something they’re really proud of, that they’ll fight for, sacrifice for, that they trust.â€?—Howard Schultz, Starbucks
• “It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change.â€?—Charles Darwin
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• “If things seem under control, you’re just not going fast enough.â€?—Mario Andretti
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• “We have a ‘strategic’ plan. It’s called doing things.â€?—Herb Kelleher, founder, Southwest Airlines
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• “Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm.â€?—Samuel Taylor Coleridge
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• "Be the change you wish to see in the world." ~ Gandhi
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• "The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." ~ Lao Tzu
• "He who knows others is wise; He who know himself is enlightened." ~ Lao Tzu
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• "If you are going to doubt something, doubt your limits." ~Don Ward
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• "There is no use trying," said Alice..."one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." ~Lewis Carroll
• "If you're going through hell, keep going..." ~Churchill
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• "Sometimes by losing a battle you find a new way to win the war." ~ Donald Trump
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• "You're never beaten until you admit it." ~ General George S. Patton, Jr
• "Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired. When you were younger the mind could make you dance all night, and the body was never tired...You've always got to make the mind take over and keep going." ~ General George S. Patton, Jr., U.S. Army General and 1912 Olympian
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• "Optimists are nostalgic about the future." ~Chicago Tribune
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• "The optimist proclaims that we live in the best of all possible worlds; and the pessimist fears this is true." ~James Branch Cabell
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• "vita non est vivere sed valere vita est .. life is more than merely staying alive"
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• "Never leave that till tomorrow which you can do today. " ~Benjamin Franklin
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• Attitude determines altitude. ~Unknown
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• "Never let yesterday use up too much of today." ~Will Rogers
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• Every crowd has a silver lining. ~P.T. (Phineas Taylor) Barnum, 1810 - 1891
• Money is in some respects life's fire: it is a very excellent servant, but a terrible master. ~P.T. (Phineas Taylor) Barnum, 1810 - 1891
• Whatever you do, do it with all your might. Work at it, early and late, in season and out of season, not leaving a stone unturned, and never deferring for a single hour that which can be done just as well as now. ~P.T. (Phineas Taylor) Barnum, 1810 - 1891
• This is a trading world and men, women, and children, who cannot live on gravity alone, need something to satisfy their gayer, lighter moods and hours, and he who ministers to this want is in a business established by the Author of our nature. ~P.T. (Phineas Taylor) Barnum, 1810 - 1891